I formed a union with Vallah. I'm still open to dating, including that I went on a date with Touk since the union (with the usual "I know you're already in a union-" line.

But Sayra has been outright nasty to me ("You didn't have time for me, so I don't have time for you" "Talk to someone who cares") despite the fact I have a friendly relationship with her and am pretty sure I did the first cutscene with her after my union.

And at the New Year's Eve festival, I got a full round of "I don't think I should tell you my wish", whereas the person I was playing with who was set to get married two days later was able to talk with them normally.

I don't recall this happening before; wth?
It's really kinda killing some of my enjoyment of the game.